Lesson 2

You're neither deaf, nor dumb..so TALK.

Communication is a vital thing no matter in which aspects of our lives. Everyone has their own way of communicating. As you talk, you give opinions, accept ideas given to you or exchange ideas. Listen with understanding to what others have to say. Then you ask questions to further understand something that is not so clear to you. That must be the hardest thing to do in life..i bet. *im being cynical here. get. it.*  

To those that communicate less;
The one you call bf/gf now could be in the future, the one whom you would spend the rest of your lifetime together with. So how can you not communicate with someone whom you are going to spend your whole life with? Maybe you have plans to torment yourself at the olden days with everything kept to yourself instead. But do let me remind you, as we age, we somehow tend to grow lonelier in our hearts that make us want to find a partner to accompany us, to communicate with us. oh well.. You decide.

To those that have no life;
Pretty please, simple conversations are not meant to be lead into arguments. To argue over practically nothing is plain stupid. I find certain little kids these days can communicate properly with manners, much better than some adults. Cheerios to em. Boo to those some adults. Remember, no one can clap and make sound with one hand. There is always two sides of the stories so assume not anything before you get to know both sides.. When argument sparks, instead of blaming others immediately, why don't you think what went wrong and what needs to be done. (In this part, i must admit, 我是过来人. In the early days of relationship, i picked on every little things that i do not see an eye with the bf. I want to be the winner to every arguments, even if im on the wrong side. Till we both got fed up and finally decided to sit down and talk. Give and take. Have mutual understandings through conversations.) Conclusion, to maintain a healthy relationship, one must have good communication skill.

Of course, even healthy relationships have their ups and downs. That makes life much more interesting. BUT not all the time. Too much is like consuming poison for self destruction. Once in a while is like taking antibiotics to boost up stronger immunity. I've had my say...so what say you?

P/s: do not ask questions if you cannot handle the answers.